Caste No Bar


“Sapna Kabhi Sakar nahi hota,
Mohabbat Ka Kohi Akaar nahi Hota,
Sab Kuch Ho jata hai iss duniya mein,
Magar dobara kisi se sacha pyar nahi hota .”

yes this is an SMS…
but it made me think…coz u see it was sent by someone i know pretty well and i know what that message means to him/her.
The Person has gone through a lot ..and when finally he/she found someone who was perfect for him/her.When The story is starting to sound like a fairy tale it comes to light that It can never Be soo.

Here Caste Becomes the Ugly Villain..In India today it still exists and rules over the right of marriage to whom and which caste that person belongs too. Even Dowry too exists and this makes a mockery of out of our Educational system which makes us study Essays( Compositions) thats says us that they have been abolished and should not be continued,.. yes they have indeed changed the Mindset of the younger generation but we gotta Listen to Our Elders na!!!! ” thats Tradition ” they say. And Poof!! there goes everything.

Recently the Supreme Court gave out a statement that “Only in India do we see People Claiming to be Backward!!!” (something like that,dont remember it exactly..buts that the Essence of It). and yes thats what it said on the OBC 27% reservation while keeping a stay order..many were relieved but now i guess the governmant wants to implement it.who knows what will happen in the future.Now im not saying that ‘reservation is Bad!!’ its just that the Creamy Layer should be left out of it. Thats what i’ve always been saying. Seen too much Injustice in Life in that area.

Oh God Everything is Politics.

OK Now back to that friend of mine.. well Come on Now ‘Is that Right???’ i dont think so..well as i am writing this i came to realise that we can not always have what we might want. Although “WANT” is quite a Big word. The status in that person’s life is such that whatever Time is left that they can spend together they are doing so..believe me i’ve heard both sides of the stories and thats why i felt like writing this.

True Love!!

what i came across Googling (try out the New BLOG search option)
desiCriticBhargavi…and someone called K.A.……

Author: inosaint

designer. data viz aficionado. evil genius. product designer at gojek.

6 thoughts on “Caste No Bar”

  1. happens only in India thats what i can say.
    u know what, every time i used to think that among our generation theres nothing like caste feeling and stuff but after i came into engineering “poof!”(in your words) . My college prefers kshatriya’s mainly. from the pune till the chairman everyone is a Kshatriya or in some way related to them.
    take the recent one, they are starting to make the student issues into politics and a rally for that, another rally by another party about using the students lives for politics.

  2. CASTE here CASTE there CASTE CASTE everywhere…
    There is NO escaping it, i agree…since our dear Goverment is so keen to bring it up with each and every issue…
    AND GUESS WHAT…Punjab State Govt. is now planning to select players from the cricket team not on the basis of performance, but on the basis of…YOU GUESSED IT.

    As for the “listening to the elders” bit…My dad is a mona Punjabi, n my mom is a bengali…and since i dunno the customs of EITHER, i consider myself to be free…plain lucky i guess.

  3. Well…this is a hot topic!
    The discussions should only be during the winters.

    ‘Gotta listen to our elders na’…Noooooo, not if they are dumb. No attitude whatsoever, but some ‘elders’ are real dimwits.

  4. yea..u’re rite…its really sad that we still have to follow this crappy system..even if its the choice of one’s life partner…

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